Baptism and conviction

I just got off the phone with one of my friends. Lately i have been decided to ask my friends some hard questions and so i was asking the perticular friend some questions and she endedd up hanging up on me. I knew that she didn't like to hear what i had to say. After i got off the phone i started to think about how i have been looking into baptism and God does command it and by me choosing not to get baptized for whatever reason i am disobeying God. I think that in life we like to choose the answer that best suits us. We want to live an easy life and when someone stands up and says something hard and true we want to shy away from it. I know that i have always wanted to think of baptism as something we should do but it isn't a command. But i think it is a command and i need to obey the command and not worry about what people think about it but just do it because God commands it. the truth hurts sometime