Whats Your View

As I am reading through the book Search for Significance I have been learning alot. Today I have been wrestling with how i view God how my view of him dictates how i ultimately view myself and how i view others. There are times when I feel like a failure to someone because I made a mistake and that person didn't like it and let me know about it. I then start feeling like a failure and that my value has dropped. This all stems from my view of God. How do you view God? How do you view yourself and others?