Has anyone sucessfully been able to put a sqare shape object in a triangle shape hole of the same size? Recently ( i might have talked about this before) i have been realizing how so many people try to put their ways of doing things on other people. I know i have probably done it myself and the more i see other people doing it the more i am learning that it is ok if others do things differently then you. i think it is hard for people to know that their are different ways of doing things and i have gotten alot of people telling me how i should do things but never telling me why i should do it that way. For example i was eating breakfast with someone this morning and she brought up an inccident that happen a couple weeks ago and started telling me how i should see where other people are coming from and there point of view and how i should change my way of doing things for them. i don't expect them to change things for me and i won't change things for them especially if they don't have a valid reasoning behind it. this process of being who i am and being able to own it is freeing. i have been able to accept alot of things about myself and been able to be more honest with my friends with who i am.
This thought continued on during chapel when the speaker read a verse from the bible: 33For John the Baptist came neither eating bread nor drinking wine, and you say, 'He has a demon.' 34The Son of Man came eating and drinking, and you say, 'Here is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and "sinners." As i was thinking about this verse i quickly realized no matter what choice i would have made they will find something i could have done different so it is best just to do want i think is best for me. people aren't going to like it but they will deal with it
and move on.
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