Do You, Own You, Love You!!!

     In the last month or so I have noticed a lot of people wanting to be something they are not, themselves.  They talk about how no one will love them or people will talk shit about them and a lot of other reasons why they just cant be the one person they so desperately want to be.
        I have a friend that I have told from the first day I met her to just DO her. She cant be anyone else but herself and she gets to choose who she is. She can be anything she wants to be and she is doing just that. She figuring out who she is, what she wants, and I am very proud for her she's taking it one day at a time and  Doing her.

  But she still has to learn to OWN what she does. If she wants to go to a party with some friends but doesn't own it then there is something there that she doesn't like and she is really not being her. Not everyone is going to like and accept what you do or think and that is ok. I would never want to be loved by fake love cause that's when you get hurt the worst cause its all a lie and lies hurt a lot more than the truth. So if you want to go do something with someone and you have to hide it or lie about it then maybe you should question yourself and your motives cause your not only being unfair to others but your also being unfair to yourself.

No matter where you go in your life, people are going to come and go. Some will stay always but you are the only one that has to stay in your life so LOVE yourself no matter what. yeah if you do something they don't like then they might walk out of your life or they might take something away that you need. But true people, real friends don't set expectations. they love you right where your at. However if you decide not to be honest with yourself and not with your friends. Are you being a real friend to them? And if your not being a real friend to them and not OWNing up to really is going on then they are making choices that they probably wouldn't have made if they knew the truth. 

Life is much easier when you Do you Own you and Love you. cause people get exactly what they see and you get to be loved for just being you. :)